Watching the latest episode of the popular television show, Gray’s Anatomy, highlighted a very simple, basic fact: some people choose to become victims where they surrender and cower in the face of evil. If you don’t want to be a victim, then read on.

For anyone who identified with the actions of the characters in that show, or said, “Well, he has a gun, there’s not much you can do!” just stop reading now.  You are a victim in the making.  Someday, your number will be called and you will be helpless and completely at the mercy and whim of a sociopath.  Good luck.  Nobody can help you because you refuse to help yourself.

For those who watched and wondered, “Why doesn’t he/she DO something?”

Read on. You can learn to help yourself and refuse to ever lie down or surrender in the face of evil and become a victim.

To avoid any confusion, let us be clear: this is a blog written about actions taken in a make-believe scenario, scripted dramatic effect and portrayed by actors.  With that as a qualifier however, there are some instructive points and lessons to be learned from this show, which was sadly all too close to the headlines.

The first point is that the shooter was quite simply a predator. Regardless of his motivation, past life or mental status at the time of the attack, he was nothing more than a sociopathic predator who could only be stopped through one method: physical force.  Historically, this has been true for most real-world active shooters as well.  They can’t be reasoned with, bargained with or talked down. In every active shooter scenario, there has never been a two-way conversation with the shooter: the active shooter comes in and  shoots as many people as he or she can until the shooter is shot, stopped physically, runs of ammunition, or until the shooter shoots himself. There is NEVER a conversation. The only way to stop them is to neutralize them through physical confrontation.

From historical situations, the majority of active shooters crumble under the first physical confrontation because they enter the situation planning to die.

The second point is that the mental attitude and prior preparation for such an incident of each individual in the show played an enormous role in their reactions. Of all of the people who were shot throughout the course of the show, only one continued to function.  That was the shooter himself.  Why (television scripting aside)?

The answer is simple, because he prepared himself for the fight.  He knew that he was going to a fight.  He expected that he would be shot, and he was prepared to fight through it and complete his mission.

The others?  They were not prepared for a fight. Normal people can prepare for this scenario without being a warrior and without self-defense knowledge!

For all of the blood and guts that the medical personnel saw on a daily basis, nothing prepared them mentally to deal with violence on a first person basis; to stand and fight, knowing that they might get hurt, even killed, but fighting anyway and refusing to sit and idly become a timid, passive victim to a mentally deranged, physically limited sociopath.

There is a strong kernel of truth to be harvested from this show: the fact of the matter is that mental attitude and preparation plays a huge role in how people perform in the worst situations.

Statistically, 80% of people in the United States who are shot with handguns LIVE. Any one, or group of the victims in that show, just like in real life, could have made the choice to do something other than cower, beg and plead with a deranged killer who clearly was of an altered mental status…they could have chosen instead to attack; to refuse to lie down and become a victim and to end the situation once and for all by neutralizing the killer.

People can do amazing things when they have the mental discipline to do so.  They can fight through pain, shock, gunshot wounds, knife wounds, emotional trauma and just about anything else life can throw at them.

Any one of those victims had the capacity to stop the killer, IF they had cultivated the proper mental attitude by learning what they did not know and what they should do in that type of situation.

Any one of those victims had the capacity to stop the killer, if they had decided ahead of time that they would NOT become a victim.

Any one of those victims had the capacity to stop the killer, if they had made the decision to TAKE ACTION.

The world can be an ugly place sometimes.  When the ugliness rears its head, you have two choices. You can get down on your knees, cower and plead and hope for the best, or you can take charge of your own destiny, refuse to be a victim and refuse to give in and surrender to evil.

Alternatively, you can choose right now to NEVER become a victim.  You can choose to gain the knowledge, mindset and skills that will allow you to DO SOMETHING when that moment comes.  Here at Sealed Mindset, we can teach you the knowledge and the skills.

The choice however, is up to you.

This blog is in response to the discussion that was started on Sign On San Diego after an article was published about the increase in numbers at self-defense classes in March 2010.

Due to statements of worry from women around the San Diego area who voiced to us that self-defense was not a complete solution for them due to their hectic lifestyles or their physical size, we wanted to reach out to address this concern.

http://www.signonsandiego.com/news/2010/mar/10/self-defense-class-enrollment-surges/

Many people believe that personal safety and defense information is available anywhere and that they can easily integrate it into their lives. These people are correct – you can go and purchase books on personal safety and defense and you can read those books.

The strength of the Sealed Mindset program is that we have done all of that work for you as well as integrate the knowledge together into a systematic approach to personal safety and awareness.

For example, take Gavin de Becker’s book, “The Gift of Fear.” He explains instinct and how to listen to your instinct better than anyone. Jeff Cooper, in his book, “The Principles of Personal Defense,” describes personal awareness levels through his color coded system better than anyone else. Col. Dave Grossman, in his books “On Killing” and “On Combat” explains the physiological effects of high stress situations better than anyone else. Within the book, “Secrets of Surveillance,” you are presented with a very thorough accounting of how to identify and assess a threat to your safety. Within the book, “Training at the Speed of Life,” you learn the psychological aspects of lethal force encounters. If you purchased all of these books, it would cost you more than the price of our program.

The biggest problem with purchasing and reading books is that you cannot learn how to integrate what you read about instinct with how you change your personal condition level, or how your ability to assess or interact with threats effects you physiologically or psychologically.

The other problem is that these books are typically written for professionals in language that is inaccessible to many normal individuals.

The strength of what we offer comes with the integration of all of this information into a system that was specifically designed with adult and youth education specialists to be accessible and easily retained.

What we’ve discussed is just a small portion of only the books that are necessary in someone’s search for personal safety and defense information. We have not even approached the lessons learned through 14 years of Special Operations training that civilians do not have access to.

If you still think that $249 is too much to pay for the knowledge represented by over 30 years of combined experience within antiterrorism, counterintelligence, and special operations fields, as well as the information contained in all the books below – all of which we present in an entertaining and easily accessible format online, then what we offer is not for you and that is okay.

Go to our site, check out our completely free five minute lesson and if the information you find in that lesson is something that you already know, then I believe you are well on your way to being safe.

Here are some books with prices and page numbers, all of which you would have to read to gain similar information to what you find in our course. The total number of pages you would have to read would be 3,002 pages. The total cost of just these few books is: $201.96
The cost of our course for 1 person? $97.00 for 10 hours of learning.

Gavin de Becker’s “The Gift of Fear” $11.95 (372 pages)

Jeff Cooper’s “The Principles of Personal Defense” $19.44 (250 pages)

Col. Dave Grossman’s “On Combat” $16.47 (391 pages)

Col. Dave Grossman’s “On Killing” $10.17 (366 pages)

Dick Couch’s “Down Range” $10.17 (242 pages)

“Psychology & Adult Learning” $44.80 (160 pages)

“Secrets of Surveillance” $14.85 (224 pages)

“Sharpening the Warriors Edge” $13.57 (141 pages)

“Protecting the Gift: Keeping Children & Teenagers Safe” $14.37 (325 pages)

Kenneth R. Murray’s “Training at the Speed of Life” $32.95 (337 pages)

“Beauty Bites Beast: Awakening the Warrior Within Women & Girls” $13.22 (194 pages)

The Sealed Mindset educational information covers the 99% scenario and is an integral part of any self-defense program. Combining this foundational knowledge with self-defense provides a complete solution for any individual who is willing to take a reasonable amount of time to learn.

Let’s all come together as a community to address the 99% scenarios so that a systematic approach to awareness and self-defense training can now be a complete solution for everyone.

If you are interested in learning more to keep yourself or your family safer each day, please look into “15 Seconds to Safety” for your friends and family. For more information: info@sealedmindset.com.

Larry Yatch the CEO of Sealed Mindset was interviewed on Blog Talk Radio today to discuss personal safety and self defense training.

Below is a description of the interview.

Join us as I interview couterterrorsim expert and retired combat veteran Navy SEAL, Larry Yatch. Larry is of www.sealedmindset.com, a personal safety and awareness training company. Larry has taken his vast knowledge and applied it to educating the average civilian via the comprehensive e-learning course “15 Seconds to Safety” that I too have benefited greatly from. Larry is featured in author Dick Couch’s book, “Down Range” as Sean Yarrow. This book recounts SEAL operations pre and post 9/11. Larry is also an industry leader in specialized technical surveillance training, which I also look forward discussing with him.

Navy SEAL Counterterrorism and Security Expert Says Americans Have a Responsibility to Protect Themselves from the Escalating Threat of Terrorism

Lt. Lawrence Yatch, a medically retired U.S. Navy SEAL and expert in the fields of terrorism and security, says that the threat of radical Islamic terrorist attacks against Americans will continue to escalate. He believes that the government’s security efforts will never be completely foolproof and that Americans need to take personal responsibility for their own safety. Lt. Yatch’s company, Sealed Mindset, specializes in developing personal safety and security training that teaches citizens how to protect themselves and their families.

San Diego, CA (PRWEB) January 11, 2010 — Terrorists are nothing new to Larry Yatch, the President and CEO of Sealed Mindset, a San Diego based security training company, spent much of his military career hunting terrorists all over the world. When asked if the recent attempted Al Qaeda bombing of a commercial airliner on Christmas Day surprised him, he didn’t hesitate for a second before giving a one-word answer, “No.”

In fact, this decorated U.S. Navy SEAL combat veteran was not surprised at all by the attempted al Qaeda attack on Christmas Day. He also doesn’t think that such incidents are likely to stop anytime soon.

“We’re fighting an enemy that’s in it for the long haul. They don’t view the world the same way that we do. They have different values. They aren’t afraid to die and they are determined to bring the war here to America.”

He also doesn’t think that the government will ever be able to stop all terrorist attacks:

“No security is foolproof. We are facing an incredibly determined enemy. A determined enemy can always find a way to mount an attack, especially in a free society. Freedom and vulnerability are interconnected. We have a lot of freedom in this country and that increases our level of vulnerability.”

Despite his grim words however, Lt. Yatch (ret.) is optimistic about the future. He believes that individual citizens can make a difference by taking responsibility for their own personal safety and is working hard to develop training that will help them do just that.

Sealed Mindset, Lt. Yatch’s company, specializes in providing personal safety training solutions delivered conveniently through a self-paced, online training program. After being medically retired from the military due to combat related injuries, Lt. Yatch began working as a private security consultant and soon realized that there was an enormous gap in the training available for private citizens.

“The only security training available for civilians is focused on physical confrontation, by using a shooting or fighting system. Those skills are important to learn, but they should always be a last resort. The key to personal safety is learning to observe a threat and then learning how to avoid it; that knowledge has kept me alive in some of the worst places in the world.”

Once Lt. Yatch recognized this deficiency, he brought together a unique team of security professionals to build a training system designed to teach people how to increase their awareness, how to recognize potential threats and then how to avoid them. After a year of research and development, Sealed Mindset launched a web-based training program meant to teach business professionals, international travelers, housewives and students a simple system that increases their own personal safety by teaching them how to be more aware and how to avoid dangerous situations.

While the training program was originally developed to help people avoid criminals, Yatch says that it is also ideal to help people to identify and avoid terrorist attacks.

“Counter-terrorism is where the information in our curriculum originated.” He says, “The skills taught are exactly the same skills that I used every day in the field as a SEAL operator. This program teaches the student how to evaluate people and decide whether or not a specific person could be a danger. It teaches each person what to look for in a threat and then shows every individual what to do about it.”

This personal safety and security training program is called 15 Seconds to Safety. The curriculum is knowledge-based instead of physical skills based, which ensures that anyone can learn and apply the lessons. 15 Seconds to Safety is available at www.sealedmindset.com.

Sealed Mindset is also working in a partnership with a Minnesota based company called Range Systems, which specializes in building dynamic tactical training environments. Together, the two companies are developing a series of groundbreaking personal security firearms training courses that will train private citizens to use firearms in self-defense against both criminal and terrorist threats.

Larry Yatch and Sealed Mindset will be at the 2010 Shot Show, featured in both the Range Systems and Emerson Knives booths.

Sealed Mindset can also be contacted at: info@sealedmindset.com or via the website: www.sealedmindset.com

What’s missing from Concealed Handgun Classes?

All but two of the fifty states currently have some measure of legal weapons carry for private citizens.  Every state has its own rules, but many require some sort of training program before they will issue a weapons permit to private citizens.

http://www.carryconcealed.net/

The requirements for these classes vary, but typically the primary topics of instruction include gun safety, basic shooting mechanics and legal requirements specific to the state.

These topics are all critical for any citizen who intends to carry a weapon for self-defense.

BUT, what is usually missing, or brushed over in these courses, is the fundamental knowledge and skill necessary to avoid situations where use of a firearm could become necessary.

The use of deadly force is always considered an option of last resort, yet the skills and knowledge required for using a firearm are the bulk of available training for men and women.

What is missing from most firearms and self-defense training is in-depth instruction on a systematic approach to avoiding and deterring potential threats before physical force becomes necessary.

For example, most firearms courses teach you exactly what to do if you are confronted with a threat to your life. What they are lacking is a clear definition of what exactly a threat looks like. They also do not address or clarify exactly what other levels there are except for threats that require use of a firearm. Most of us walk around our worlds surrounded by people that are not threats to our lives.

We teach that all people that you come in contact with can be classified into one of five categories:

Non-threat – is not physically able and shows no intent to harm you.

Neutral – may be physically able to harm you, but shows no intent.

Possible Threat-poses significant physical ability, or is “out of place”.

Threat – physical ability does not matter, shows intent to harm you or someone near you.

Help – has the physical ability and personal or professional obligation to help you.

These classifications are just the beginning. The next step is to learn what distinguishes each category, and where to look for these distinguishing characteristics.

Now, for the first time ever, you can find this systematic approach and many others in Sealed Mindset’s online course, 15 Seconds to Safety.  This Sealed Mindset course will help you make the most out of your concealed handgun carry class, no matter what state you reside in.

For more information on gaining this fundamental knowledge and skill, visit www.sealedmindset.com today!

Is there a connection between the number of guns and violent crime?

There have always been strong feelings on both sides of the answer to this question. Some argue that by increasing the difficulty for citizens to gain firearms, you will also reduce the level of crimes committed by firearms. Others argue that by increasing the number of legally owned firearms, you reduce the overall crime rate. Regardless of which side of the answer you come down on, the National Rifle Association (NRA) published an interesting article this week about guns and crime in 2009:

http://www.nraila.org/Legislation/Federal/Read.aspx?id=5268

According to the article, the FBI’s Preliminary Uniform Crime Report for 2009 showed that the number of murders decreased dramatically in the first six months of 2009 (see http://www.fbi.gov/ucr/2009prelimsem/index.html).

The NRA asserts that this decrease in violent crime occurred in a timeframe where firearms, ammunition, and gun ownership reached an all-time high:

“For the better part of the last 15 months, firearms, ammunition, and “large” ammunition magazines have been sold in what appear to be record quantities.”

Whatever your personal feelings on gun ownership may be, these are thought-provoking statistics.  The numbers seem to suggest that more guns need not necessarily equate to more violence.

To the contrary, it appears that a well-armed society, where individuals assume a measure of responsibility for their own safety, may in fact be a safer society for all citizens.

Think of  this question from a criminal’s point of view.  If you have the choice to commit a carjacking in rural Texas, where every pickup truck has a shotgun on a rack in the back window, or in Washington DC where firearms are illegal to be carried concealed, which state would you choose?

As you can see from two posts ago, I would feel safer surrounded by weapons carried by responsible citizens in Texas, rather than being unarmed and surrounded by criminals with illegal weapons in Washington DC.

Please send your comments and thoughts on this article to info@sealedmindset.com, or post a comment here to lend your perspective.

The Evil that Predators Do:

Just recently a new, but all too familiar type of terror struck Prince William County Maryland as a suspected serial rapist assaulted two teenagers on their way home from trick-or-treating.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/12/16/AR2009121604242.html?hpid=moreheadlines

What makes people act like this?  Why would someone assault and rape two innocents who were clearly unable to effectively resist?

For most of us, actions such as these are incomprehensible.  Nevertheless, there are members of society who prey upon the helpless.  They are the predators.  For reasons that the rest of us will never understand, these predators move through the world looking for victims.

Many people choose to ignore and block out these terrifying situations, preferring to believe that good things will happen to good people and to ignore the evil that exists in our society.  Many of the people who choose this approach do so out of fear.

As it turns out, this fear is often less about the criminals themselves and more about being unknowledgeable and powerless to do anything about this fear.  In other words, it is a lack of knowledge that keeps individuals from seeking out the proper means to stay safe.

Unfortunately, tucking our heads in the sand does not eliminate the evils in society, nor does it effectively stop them.  In fact, all this “head in the sand” approach really does is make a person more likely to become a victim.

A better approach is recognizing and acknowledging the existence of evil.  Recognizing the existence of evil is the first step although it does not eliminate fear, it will empower you to take action to keep yourself safe.  Understanding the existence of evil allows you to face the fear and to understand that you CAN do something about it.  No matter who you are or what your physical capabilities may be, you can always take charge of your own personal safety.

To learn more try the 10 lesson “15 Seconds to Safety” course at www.sealedmindset.com

Julia Corker, daughter of Tennessee Senator Bob Corker was car-jacked in downtown Washington, DC.

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,579148,00.html?test=latestnews

According to news reports, she was stopped at an intersection when two unarmed men ripped her out of her vehicle, jumped in and drove away with her SUV.  Fortunately, she was uninjured and authorities quickly arrested her attackers.

The focus of the media coverage on this story has been the rapid police response to her phone call for help and the vehicle-tracking device that ultimately helped police to find and apprehend the two criminals.

This media reporting highlights the mindset that most people have about security.  They place the primary responsibility for their own safety in the hands of others and tend to focus on reacting after an incident has already occurred.   Ironically, this approach is not only flawed, but it is actually one of the largest reasons that criminals are able to carry out successful attacks.

This particular story has a happy ending, but the entire situation probably could have been avoided with just a little bit of situational awareness and a structured security mindset.

Yes, there was a vehicle-tracking device. Yes, there were authorities that quickly rushed to the scene. BUT, for those few terrifying minutes as she was dragged from her car by the throat and lay alone, unconscious on the street, none of that mattered.  Picture yourself or your child in Julia Corker’s shoes.  Now ask yourself these questions:

• Would you have been able to avoid this attack if you knew how to increase your awareness, what to look for and how to evaluate people who approach you?
• Would you have been able to react faster with the knowledge of how to prioritize your personal safety actions?
• Would you feel better knowing how to react BEFORE an incident ever occurred?

Effective response to an attack is a good thing, but it doesn’t change the fact that an attack has already occurred.  It is much better to stop attacks from happening in the first place through a well-developed mindset that focuses on situational awareness and avoidance.

For more information, check out Sealed Mindset’s 15 Seconds to Safety course.

With the holidays upon us, and recent news headlines reporting an increase in violent crime on our military bases and in our workplaces, our concern for safety is at an all time high. You may notice many companies putting out safety tips aimed at preventing you from becoming the victim of a crime this holiday season.

Many of these safety tip lists are short, vague and do not address your real concerns, specifically “What do I do, if. . .?”

We’ve taken the typical list of tips and we’ve added the Sealed Mindset spin to give you practical, concrete examples of how to keep yourself safer over the holidays. You will read the first 5 points today, and we will post the next five later in the week.

The first portion of each tip is the “typical” advice. The second portion of each tip in italics is the knowledge from the Sealed Mindset Team. This revised list will give you real knowledge to help yourself take control of your personal safety.

1. Be aware. It is essential to be aware of your surroundings at all times. By being alert, you may be able to stop an attack before it occurs.

In order to be aware, you need a systematic method of opening your vision. Most people have been trained in school to stare straight ahead, whether at a chalkboard, a computer monitor or even another person while in a one-on-one conversation. Many people never use their peripheral vision.

To open up your peripheral vision and to train yourself to use it each day so that you can truly “be aware,” you can practice using your peripheral vision. For example, when you stand in a line at the supermarket, see if you can tell what is to your right and left without looking in those directions. See if you can tell what the person beside you is doing with his or her hands. If you practice connecting to your peripheral vision each day, soon you will be able to see more than ever before.

2. Trust your instincts. Listen to what your intuition tells you. This will allow you to avoid a situation that does not feel safe.

Your instinct is your mind’s ability to process more information sub-consciously than consciously. Your instinct is the word we use to refer to the feelings associated to the facts that your unconscious mind brings to your attention.

You can harness your instinct and sharpen it by associating your instinctive “feelings” with a touch. For example, when you get a feeling in the pit of your stomach that something is wrong, or when you feel the hairs on the back of your neck stand up, you can at the same time touch your inner wrist. This associative gesture allows you to train your instinct to work for you whenever you touch your inner wrist.

3. Keep your cell phone handy. It is critical to have a cell phone at all times, but do not keep it glued to your ear. Talking on the phone causes people to be less aware of their surroundings.

Plug in your cell phone to charge it each evening, so that when you leave home with your cell phone you know the battery is charged should you need it. Buy and place inexpensive disposable cell phone batteries, like the ones below in your car and purse:

Disposable Cell Phone Batteries

Memorize your closest friend, spouse, or family’s phone numbers so that you can call them from another phone, if you do not have your phone with you.

4. Avoid presenting a victim profile. When out in public look people in the eye, keep your head up, and walk with a confident stride. This could prevent an attack.

If you do not know what to look for in people around you, you will not be able to prevent an attack, even if you do walk with a more confident stride. True confidence does not come from looking people in the eye. In some instances, looking a person who is a threat in the eye can call their attention to you. Instead, look briefly at each person around you to identify if that person could be considered a threat, non-threat or source of help. Categorizing people is the first step to keeping yourself safer – for the complete list of characteristics to look for, check out Lesson 5 of Sealed Mindset’s 15 Seconds to Safety.

5. Lock car doors and leave. Many people have the tendency to get into their car and sit. This gives an attacker the ability to break into the vehicle and cause bodily harm, or allow them to steal the car.

Remember that your car is not only a means of escape, but it can also be a weapon. Think about the type of car you drive most often. Ask yourself questions about the feasibility of using your car as a weapon, for example: what type of clearance does your car have? Do you feel comfortable pushing the speed of your vehicle, if you needed to? What other types of drivable terrain are available for you to use other than the road directly in front of you should you need to find an alternate route? You can avoid becoming a victim by recognizing the driving rules that limit your ability to use your vehicle to escape harm, and then you can actively visualize yourself disregarding these rules in the safest manner possible to use your vehicle to your own advantage.

If you like what you read, check out www.sealedmindset.com for more real personal safety knowledge. The rest of the list will be posted shortly.

Here is a fascinating You-Tube video.

This is a prime example of an average citizen who flat-out refused to become a victim of violent crime. His security planning could have been improved to avoid some of these incidents but nonetheless, he steadfastly refused to be a victim. If every citizen aggressively exercised these same rights, violent crime rates would plummet nationwide.  Armed defense isn’t the right solution for everyone.  However, all citizens have both the inherent right to self-defense and the capability to refuse to become a victim of violent crime.

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